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Adults Are Sharing The Most Explicit Things Porn Gets Wrong About Real-Life Sex, And Wow, These Answers Are Spot-On
6. “I rarely see them apply lube! You have to get sloppy with that stuff.”
Perspective #1: “Sometimes it’s that morning side-bang after a hard night drinking and everyone is dehydrated. Or you’ve been going at it for 40 minutes and used up all the natural. Sometimes I will put some on my finger before massaging the clitoris too because I’ve found it helps a ton. Friction is numbness and/or pain, friction is the enemy.“
Perspective #2: “This is a good call-out on major differences in porn vs. real life. Preference changes with time as anyone whose been in a long-term relationship can testify to. And it’s different for everyone, whether you are using condoms, your age, whether men are circumcised, or the makeup of the labia.
My wife and I got together as teens and are in our 30s. At 19, everyone is ready to go in a second; by 25, with a condom maybe the female needs it. At 30, an uncircumcised male might need it more. And the changes go on and on.”
